How does one succeed in life?
13.06.2025 00:02
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Ask yourself:
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Have you been arrested or investigated?
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Why is Taylor Swift re-recording her albums?
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Teens like me, what are your expectations when entering adulthood?
Making more friends is a goal.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
That's it for today.
Seahawks defenders want to "put the team on our back" - NBC Sports
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
What is the happy reality of our generation?
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
"Gasping": Scientists Make Breakthrough Toward Full Cure for HIV - futurism.com
Do not set goals—set systems.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Who is the greatest light welterweight boxer of all time?
Procrastinates a lot.
Does not procrastinate.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
How can couples reverse the buildup of resentment once they notice it?
Losing 20kg is a goal.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
What I need from you?
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
What caused the stock market to crash?
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.